SANTA!!! … I Want That Man for Christmas

Christmas is here again and I am sure we single ladies are wondering… "Am I really going to spend Christmas alone this year??" To those who were single last year and are single again this year, Ouch!! That hurts. I mean, you see your friends posting lovely pictures of themselves and their boo. It’s almost like every now and then a blackberry display picture has an update of another girl who just got engaged. when you think about it, it really does suck. Now, if you are in a relationship especially one that has been going on for a while, you should definitely be wondering "when will this guy propose sef". The worst could even be, if you’re in a relationship and the dude doesn’t seem to be thinking marriage at all. Okay! That calls for an alarm, but then again I think not. Babe any guy who is blind enough not to see that you are the best thing he could ever have as a wife is not wise enough to handle you with the befitting care, pampering and love you deserve. 

So to the singles ladies if it makes you feel better, I spent Christmas last year a single lady and the way It’s looking i am going to spend this one single again but do you hear me shed tears??? Of course not, am I going to sit down looking all gloomy and uncared for in my old pyjamas and cry till my eyes are red??  Errrmmm!!.... That won't be cool. So there, I am not going to throw a pity party simply because I am not in a relationship. Will he come?? Yes! But while I wait, I am going to make sure I have a whole lot of fun and you should do same. 

See, life is short and seriously are you going to keep feeling sad simply because there are marriages every Saturday but they ain’t yours. Babe look on the bright side, you have more time to develop yourself to be the best wife your husband could ever imagine. I mean won’t that be the best gift ever, for your husband to wonder why the hell he delayed in marrying you? Losing sleep over your single status won’t change anything but I know what will.  I have a pretty good idea with what can make that guy notice you when you pass. Are you wondering what it is?? Yeah! Me to…lol! I was just kidding. Well I would love to share it with you now but I guess I’ll wait till my next post. Then again if you have ideas that can help a lady, feel free to say so. Until next time, be good, feel sexy and glow.....

Cheers!!

Imoh Iniakpaniko

@imohspeaks