YES!! SO I GOT THE GUY’S ATTENTION!!................

                                                         

It’s a Monday morning and a friend who I am having a huge thing for offered to take me to work today. Actually we used to date but things came up and we broke up, sincerely If I could I won’t let him go but then again there are some values of mine I won’t sacrifice for a relationship.... ‘for my esteem sake’. So here I am dressing up to make sure he doesn’t have a peaceful day at work, I wear a sweet gown to quietly give reverence to my body curves. Yes I’m sexy and I know it. 

Here I am looking so lovely like a piece of launch ‘to a dirty mind’ all because I want him to regret he let me go. 7:40am he calls me that he’s outside my house; I acknowledge his call and come out of the house. Now walking towards his car I can feel his eyes eating me up but nope I won’t bulge, I bluntly refuse to look him in the eyes and wave hello. I gently close our house gate and make sure I give a soft turn, making sure he had a good look. 

So now I’m in his car and he moves towards me uncontrollably and offers to give me a kiss but I give him my cheeks instead. Now I know my feminine charm is at work. Grinning from cheek to cheek with excitement in his eyes, he zooms off with me in car while we start our discussion of how we have been. The chat doesn’t go on for long before he starts professing how much he has missed me; he goes on and on of how much he would want me back in his life, how his love for me has not dwindled. This guy is obviously taking this toasting yarn seriously because he is blasting all the words in the guy’s bible.  So the drive isn’t so long just 30mins, definitely our chat doesn’t last for long. Before long we are at my office, with an unhappy sigh I unbuckle my sit belt to leave the car, now something amazing happens. He parks the car to actually talk to me some more. Okay! This is getting interesting. He obviously doesn’t want me to go; he keeps on talking about the whole thing of missing me and even goes ahead to book for a date…. Did I say no!? Of course not but I didn’t promise to be available either. My hair is undone and he asks me when I’ll make it. I mentioned I wasn’t sure because I wasn’t ready to spend on my hair. He asked the price of making it; I didn’t relent in letting him in on the price details. Of course a free hair once in a while won’t be bad…. and I’m loving all this attention but it’s been 10mins since I got to the office plus a story must come to an end. As I walk out of the car I have a sigh of relief, yes! It worked, I’ve gotten his attention back…..

 So tell me, is there any guy you like or want but he isn’t showing interest? Does it seem like no matter how much you try to bring up a conversation with him, he still doesn’t look your way? Not to worry. I’ll advice you don’t feel belittled or ignored, you just need to sharpen your skills in getting and keeping his attention. As we already know…. men are moved by sight and it’s obvious that men love the package first before the content. This is their weakness and this is your strength. So ladies stop complaining about how single you are and start strategically getting your man and I mean ANY MAN… How? I will discuss this further on the next post but feel free to share your ideas on ways to get the attention of the man you want. 

Cheers!!