5 Ways to Get and Keep His Attention

So here you are looking at this hot sexy guy, secretly wishing that he would just steal a glance at you but what happens… the man doesn’t even notice you are there. What!!!.... How dare he, how on earth can’t he see the goddess bedside him? Nope this has to stop. We need to step up our game. We need to see the guy we want and get him for keeps….like be our own gin née….. Now that will be fun. But seriously aside getting the man we want, we need to keep him too. So how in God’s name are we going to do that??? Yeah! I know, this is worse than jamb but then again when there is a will, there is a way. So here are 5 simple ways to not only get your desired man’s attention but keep his attention too. 

1.       Step out hot: as we already know, guys like the package before the content, so the first impression is the ice breaker. You don’t want to miss it here. Dress in clothes that make you feel sexy. If you start wearing push up bra or show some cleavage, he’ll notice. If you dress in colours that are bright and slinky, sweet dresses that accentuate your figure and hugs you body just right, he’ll definitely notice. I didn’t say slutty oh! I mean sexy.

 

2.      Be yourself: okay! So you don’t want to seem like Cinderella at first and then end up to be seen and the wicked old witch. Nah! No guy wants a girl who pretends like she is something she isn’t. Be comfortable about who you are. Be sincere, truthful, sweet and fun. Show him that you are a good friend. Listen to the music he listens to, observe and show interest in the things he likes. Make sure to be open and friendly. You want him to like you for who you are. Be cool just being yourself. Seriously! A Genuine personally is gold.

3. Be Confident: Confidence rocks, nothing is sexier than appearing confident in your own skin. No matter what you perceive your shortcomings to be, a sure-fire way to get and keep his attention is by exuding confidence. Babe! own the way you look and play up your best personality traits and physical attributes. Even if you’re feeling nervous, hold your head up high and keep your shoulders back. Keep your body language open but yet reserved, walk like you own the place. Be happy with yourself. Having a confident personality can work wonders, even for women who are not content with the way they look. Confidence is a major turn on.

4.  Be Mysterious: A huge part of attracting a man is by not giving it all away. Don’t talk his ear off about every detail of your life or feelings. Think about what you say carefully and don’t fill the conversation with idle gabbing. The air of mystery keeps him guessing and arouses his curiosity about you. Imagine if you lean forward to give a kiss and then in a split second you reward your body back to status quo as if you just reconsidered your present action, my guy would go bungas…lol! But that will be cool. 

5. Play the disappearing Act: keep him guessing where you are and what you’re doing. I mean, it’s just the coolest thing ever when a guy needs you and you ain’t there…. Ouch! That will hurt. Occasionally be unavailable and then he is going to start paying more attention to you. At least now this dude will definitely be thinking of how to bring you back into his life. Babe, I didn’t say go off radar oh! If you like try it and the guy will move on to the next girl. Yes! Be caring, nice, but not too available because you don’t want to be predictable. Every once in a while, turn down his date offers. A little tease by making him wait for you to check your schedule for a date will get him to see the picture.

Believe me when I say “ladies! There is more from where that came from”. I want you to try out these tips this season and come back with reports…. I mean it, am waiting for testimonies. While next article we will deeper things on keeping his attention am so sure, you don’t want to miss that. Take care Angels, be good, feel sexy and glow…

Cheers!!!

Imoh Iniakpaniko

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