Is It Worth It???????????.............

                                                               

I just watched a movie called 'guilt trip' , where a lady had spent 30 years of her life thinking she didn't matter to an old love of hers simply because when they were dating, he didn't want to marry while she was in for the whole hall. Well to cut the story short , she ended up marrying some else and  named her only child and son after him. Only to find out that this man name his only daughter after her too. it shocked her but also gave her peace to know that this guy loved her too the same way.

I then began to wonder, why didn't he marry her? why couldn't he have just proposed to her ? why did he let her marry someone else? was all this just because he was been super careful? question flooded my mind but what the heck, this man made his choice. 

To me this was just crap but sadly this happens every day and to a lot of us too. We love someone so dearly but for some reason or the other we don’t get to marry them. Years down the line we keep wondering what would our lives had been if we did marry them. Here we are tied to someone else for life but in love to another and we call it life. It's sad that we humans would do this to ourselves and suffer our hearts for so long. 

life is short and I feel we should stop hurting ourselves and do what makes us happy. Stop thinking about society, or religion. What should matter to us is that we are in right standing with our creator and He is pleased with us. We owe it ourselves to live our life's to the fullest. Don't cut yourself short, chase your dreams, live your life and die knowing fully well that you have no maybe's or what if's in your mind…….

Cheers,

Imoh Iniakpaniko

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