15 Raw Truths Ladies Must Know .....

Yep! relationships are a whole different ball game depending on the various opponents in the game. Sincerely, there is really no black and white rule on how make a relationship to work but there are basic rules that can guide an individual through one. It's really your choice to sieve out what you will take as truths and what you will ignore but for the records, these truths should be deeply considered.



 1.  Don't endure domestic abuse in a marriage because of your kids and what people will say. If you die as a result, the man, the people and the kids will bid you dust-to-dust, he will marry another woman and she will take your place as the mother of your kids. It's that simple!

2.  If you allow your parents' pressure (even for a grandchild) push you into marriage, you may end up a single-mom.

3.  A man that slaps you before marriage will build a boxing ring after marriage. Guess who his opponent will be - YOU!

 4.  If your man must be Tall, Dark and Handsome then be ready to have equal competitions because what you desire, others' seek too.

 5. If you are already living with him before marriage, be sure to know that he won't propose quickly

 6.  If you are yet to know any member of his family after 6 - 12 months of courting him, then, is either he wants you as his baby-mama or a back-up plan.

7.  If he doesn't discuss future plans with you in the picture, he just wants a fling.

8.  Even when you trust each other, a little jealousy reminds him that you care.

9.  Men love a listener. No matter how much you want your opinion to push through, listen to his details and don't counter it.

10.  Your encouragement or concern about his career or job works faster than listening to a motivational tape.

11.  Don't waste your years waiting for an unserious man to propose just because his parents loves you,  you're going to be married and living with the man, not his parents.

12.  When you seek his advice, you make him feel more of a man than he is.

13.  If what attracted him to you are your boobs and the sexy legs you flaunted, the contents of your brain had better keep him, else, there are too many well-rounded and bigger boobs waiting to snatch him away.

14.  Men love sex, at least 95% that I  am aware of. To him, if you can't continue, don't start! If you start, don't stop! Be careful!

15.  An engagement ring isn't an assurance for marriage,